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TW: Rape, Date Rape

Recently, the blog againstherwill.tumblr.com has been brought to my attention. Upon first inspection, I thought it was just a a bondage/cuckholding porn blog. However, after looking through a few pages of posts it became clear that a lot of the content goes beyond being just about a fetish and moves into the territory of promoting date rape.


Fetishism isn’t about exploiting your partner in order to satisfy your own sexual desires, it is about building a foundation of trust on which you can explore those sexual desires in a safe, consensual way. This isn’t porn, this isn’t fantasy. No disclaimers are featured on this blog, never does the owner of the blog encourage safety or consent. The blog doesn’t feature a NSFW or trigger warning. I get the idea that many people might find this blog and use it to justify date rape on the grounds of it being for the sake of fulfilling their fetish. It is never okay to ruin someone’s life in order to fulfill your own fantasy. Let me repeat that, it is never okay to ruin someone’s life in order to fulfill your own fantasy. Please spread this around like wildfire and report this blog.

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